俗話說：冰凍三盡非一日之寒。前幾天，我通過微頭條曬了一下我女兒初二上學期的期中考試成績以及她寫的幾篇文章，有一些家長朋友們看了之后，就問我：孩子是如何培養的？其實答案很簡單：就是持之以恒的陪伴。
我是一名初中生物老師，我深深懂得示范在教育行業的重要性。我女兒2001年出生，我從2008年就開始用心記錄陪她學習的每一天了。其實，我們度過的每一天都是平淡無奇的。日復一日，年復一年。我的過人之處是：我并不覺得這樣的日子枯燥乏味，反而對跟女兒呆在一起學習感到興趣盎然。
我女兒具體每天的學習內容，對于讀者朋友們來說，其實也沒有什么欣賞的價值。我用心記錄的系列“育女心經”的價值在于觀看整體。只有等我把我曾經用心撰寫的全部”育女心經“全部曬完之后，您才能感受到什么叫父愛，當然也能從中領悟到一些家庭教育的核心理念。
131. 2008年10月13日
My daughter also has a lot of homework today.After supper,she is still doing her homework while my wife and I watch the soap opera 《The Legend of Bruce Lee》.When she finishes doing it,it is already ten past nine o’clock.So I just let her pick all her stuffs and take a bath,then go to bed.Today she has no chance to learn English.I am afraid that as she grows older,there will be less time left for her to learn English everyday.
我女兒今天又有很多家庭作業.晚飯,當我和妻子在看《李小龍傳奇》的時候,她都一直在做作業.當她做完作業時,已經是九點十分了.所以我就讓她收拾她她的東西,然后去沖涼,接著便上床睡覺.今天她沒有機會學英語.我擔心,隨著她年齡的增長,留給她每天學習英語的時間會越來越少.
132. 2008年10月14日
My daughter is very happy today.Because she not only finishes her homework ,but also finishes learning five new sentences of English in lesson 4 before supper.Actually,it is right 7 p.m.So she can watch TV together with my wife and me.We watch two episodes of the soap opera 《The Legend of Bruce Lee》.Here are the five new sentences that she learns today:
我女兒今天非常高興.因為她不僅在晚飯前做完了家庭作業,而且學完了第四課的五個新句子.事實上,當時正好晚上七點.因此,她可以和我妻子與我一起看電視了.我們看了兩集的電視連續劇<<李小龍傳奇>>.下面是她今天新學的第四課的五個句子.
Jack is telling a story about a monster.
杰克正在講一個有關一個怪物的故事.
He told a story to his friends.
他給他的朋友們講了一個故事.
He has thick eyebrows.
他有濃濃的眉毛.
My eyebrows are brown.
我的眉毛是棕色的.
I burned my tongue.
我燙著了我的舌頭.
133. 2008年10月15日
My daughter is very clever.She finishes her homework at school today.So when we go back home,she has more than an hour to play and read some extracurricular book.In the past,she was still young.I forced her to learn English everyday.At the beginning time,she is so reluctant to to it.In order to prolong the time,she left all the homework home.And she did her homework very slow.Day by day,she grows older.Now she can understand all these things.She wants to control more spare time.I just tell her that if she can manage her day to day’s task earlier.Then there will be more free time left for her.Yesterday,she finished homework more faster than before.Today,she finishes her homework at school straightforward.
Obviously,that means she is grow up.I am so happy today.Of course,she is happy too.Because she just take less than thirty minutes to finish grasping today’s five new sentences before 7:00 p.m.Here are the five new sentences:
我女兒很聰明.她今天在學校完成了家庭作業.所以當我們回到家后,她就有了一個多小時的玩和閱讀課外書的自由時間了.過去,她還小.我強迫她每天學英語.在剛開始的時候,她十分不情愿.為了拖延時間,她把家庭作業全留在回家來做.而且,她做起作業來速度非常慢.一天天的,她長大了.現在她能理解這一切了.她想控制更多的空閑時間了.我就告訴她如果她能早一些完成第天的學習任務.那么留給她的空閑時間就越多.昨天,她完成家庭作業的速度明顯比以前要快一些.今天,她干脆在學校就完成了全部家庭作業.顯然,這意味著她長大了.我今天非常高興.當然,她也很高興.因為她花了不到三十分鐘的時間,在晚上七點前就掌握了今天新學習的五個句子.這是新學的那五個句子.
Buddy stuck out his tongue at me.
巴迪對我伸出它的舌頭.
I brush my teeth every morning.
我每天早晨刷牙.
Baby Tony is getting a tooth.
嬰兒托尼正在長一顆牙齒.
Her doll has lovely red lips.
她的洋娃娃有可愛的紅嘴唇.
Lily paints her lips red with Mom’s lipstick.
莉莉用媽媽的口紅把她的嘴唇涂得紅紅的.
那年十月，我女兒剛滿七周歲。
她認真對待學習的態度就是在我這樣日復一日、年復一年、嚴格要求、以身示范的有效陪伴基礎上漸培養起來的。
